"In civilized life it has
at last become possible for large numbers of people to pass from the
cradle to the grave without ever having had a pang of genuine fear. Many
of us need an attack of mental disease to teach us the meaning of the
word." William James.
We have all heard the
seemingly discriminating remarks that fear is normal and abnormal, and
that normal fear is to be regarded as a friend, while abnormal fear should
be destroyed as an enemy.
The fact is that no
so called normal fear can be named which has not been clearly absent in
some people who have had every cause therefor. If you will run over human
history in your mind, or look about yea in the present life, you will find
here and there persons who, in situations or before objects which ought,
as any fearful soul will insist, to inspire the feeling of at least normal
self-protecting fear, are nevertheless wholly without the feeling. They
possess every feeling and thought demanded except fear. The idea of
self-preservation is as strongly present as with the most abjectly timid
or terrified, but fear they do not know. This fearless awareness of fear
suggesting conditions may be due to several causes. It may result from
constitutional make-up, or from long continued training or habituation, or
from religious ecstasy, or from a perfectly calm sense of spiritual
selfhood which is unhurtable, or from the action of very exalted reason.
Whatever the explanation, the fact remains: the very causes which excite
fear in most of us, merely appeal, with such people, if at all. to the
instinct of self-preservation and to reason, the thought-element of the
soul which makes for personal peace and wholeness.
Banish all fear.
It is on
such considerations that I have come to hold that all real fear-feeling
should and may be banished from our life, and that what we call "normal
fear" should be substituted in our language by "instinct" or by "reason,"
the element of fear being dropped altogether.
"Everyone can testify that the psychical state called
fear consists of mental representations of certain painful results"
(James). The mental representations may be very faint as such, but the
idea of hurt to self is surely present. If, then, it can be profoundly
believed that the real self cannot be hurt; if the reason can be brought
to consider vividly and believingly all quieting considerations; if the
self can be held consciously in the assurance that the White Life
surrounds the true self, and is surely within that self, and will suffer
"no evil to come nigh," while all the instincts of self preservation may
be perfectly active, fear itself must be removed "as far as the east is
from the west."
These are the ways, then, in
which any occasion for fear may be divided:
As
a warning and as a maker of panic. But let us say that the warning should
be understood as given to reason, that fear need not appear at all, and
that the panic is perfectly useless pain. With these discriminations in
mind, we may now go on to a preliminary study of fear.
Preliminary study of fear.
Fear is (a) an impulse, (b) a habit, (c) a
disease.
Fear, as it exists in man, is a
make-believe of sanity, a creature of the imagination, a state of
insanity.
urthermore, fear is, now of the
nerves, now of the mind, now of the moral consciousness.
The division depends upon the point of view. What is
commonly called normal fear should give place to reason, using the word to
cover instinct as well as thought. From the correct point of view all fear
is an evil so long as entertained.
Whatever its manifestations, wherever its apparent location, fear is a psychic state, of course, reacting upon the individual in several ways: as, in the nerves, in mental moods, in a single impulse, in a chronic habit, in a totally unbalanced condition. The reaction has always a good intention, meaning, in each case, "Take care! Danger!" You will see that this is so if you will look for a moment at three comprehensive kinds of fear fear of self, fear for self, fear for others. Fear of self is indirectly fear for self danger. Fear for others signifies foresensed or forepictured distress to self because of anticipated misfortune to others. I often wonder whether, when we fear for others, it is distress to self or hurt to them that is most emphatically in our thought.
Fear, then, is usually regarded as the soul's danger
signal. But the true signal is instinctive and thoughtful reason.
Even instinct and reason, acting as warning, may
perform their duty abnormally, or assume abnormal proportions. And then we
have the feeling of fear. The normal warning is induced by actual danger
apprehended by mind in a state of balance and self-control. Normal mind is
always capable of such warning. There are but two ways in which so-called
normal fear, acting in the guise of reason, may be annihilated: by the
substitution of reason for fear, and by the assurance of the white
life.
Let it be understood, now, that by normal
fear is here meant normal reason real fear being denied place and function
altogether. Then we may say that such action of reason is a benefactor to
man. It is, with pain and weariness, the philanthropy of the nature of
things within us.
One person said: "Tired? No
such word in my house!" Now this cannot be a sound and healthy attitude.
Weariness, at a certain stage of effort, is a signal to stop work. When
one becomes so absorbed in labor as to lose consciousness of the feeling
of weariness, he has issued a "hurry call" on death. I do not deny that
the soul may cultivate a sublime sense of buoyancy and power; rather do I
urge you to seek that beautiful condition; but I hold that when a belief
or a hallucination refuses to permit you to hear the warning of nerves and
muscles, Nature will work disaster inevitably. Let us stand for the larger
liberty which is joyously free to take advantage of everything Nature may
offer for true well-being. There is a partial liberty which tries to
realize itself by denying various realities as real; there is a higher
liberty which really realizes itself by conceding such realities as real
and by using or disusing them as occasion may require in the interest of
the self at its best. I hold this to be true wisdom: to take advantage of
everything which evidently promises good to the self, without regard to
this or that theory, and freely to use all things, material or immaterial,
reasonable or spiritual. I embrace your science or your method; but I beg
to ignore your bondage to philosophy or to consistency. So I say that to
normal health the weary-sense is a rational command to replenish exhausted
nerves and muscles.
It is not liberty, it is
not healthful, to declare, "There is no pain!" Pain does exist, whatever
you affirm, and your affirmation that it does not is proof that it does
exist, for why (and how) declare the non-existence of that which actually
is non-existent? But if you say, "As a matter of fact I have pain, but I
am earnestly striving to ignore it, and to cultivate thought-health so
that the cause of pain may be removed," that is sane and beautiful. This
is the commendable attitude of the Bible character who cried: "Lord, I
believe; help thou mine unbelief." To undertake swamping pain with a cloud
of psychological fog that is to turn anarchist against the good government
of Nature. By pain Nature informs the individual that he is somewhere out
of order. This warning is normal. The feeling becomes abnormal in the mind
when imagination twangs the nerves with reiterated irritation, and Will,
confused by the discord and the psychic chaos, cowers and shivers with
fear.
I do not say there is no such thing as
fear. Fear does exist. But it exists in your life by your permission only,
not because it is needful as a warning against "evil."
Fear is induced by unduly magnifying actual danger, or
by conjuring up fictitious dangers through excessive and misdirected
psychical reactions. This also may be taken as a signal of danger, but it
is a falsely-intentioned witness, for it is not needed, is hostile to the
individual because it threatens self-control and it absorbs life's forces
in useless and destructive work when they ought to be engaged in creating
values.